Our Heart and Home

Pin Me!!

2012-01-28T20:18:00.000-06:00

I am joining in on the weekly Pinterest blog hop. This blog hop is hosted by Shopping for Savings and Matter of Cents and it is "Reader's Choice" this week. So, I choose Crock Pot Meals!!

I love, love, love my crock pot!!! I use it all the time and it makes my afternoons and evenings so much simpler.

If you are not on Pinterest yet, you really should check it out!! It is a wealth of ideas, recipes, DIY helps, and so much more!!! Leave me a comment with your email addy if you would like an invite to join Pinterest as you will need it to fully use Pinterest.

Where is your heart?

2012-01-27T07:52:00.002-06:00

It has been said time and time again that children learn through play. They also mimic what they see around them and what they perceive to be improtant. So the other day when I watched a church service, complete with the Lord's Supper unfold in our play room my heart was filled.

"Mommy" and "Son" sitting in church

I didn't find it disrespectful that they used water and cereal as the sacriments, and I didn't question that they allowed the baby to participate.

Partaking of the "Lord's Supper"

I was just so pleased to see that church, the workings of the church, and worshiping their Savoir is an important part of my children's lives.

Leading in "Worship"

They view worship important enough to include it in their play. And I couldn't be happier!!

Shouldn't we all be more like this? Including worship in EVERY aspect of our lives and not just when we walk through the doors of church would do us all a bit of good I do imagine. We, as mommas need to take time to STOP, BREATHE, and WORSHIP!! Even if just for a second to utter a prayer, sing a verse to song, or to tell our Heavenly Father that we love Him. Let's include more worship in our days, and make our Father's heart full as mine was the other day.

Love you dear sisters,
Amanda

Toys.

2012-01-26T11:12:00.001-06:00

Join me today at Happily Domestic to read all about my toy organization and storage ideas!! Please share any non toy gift ideas and toy storage suggestions that you may have!!! Let's help each other out!!

Using "extra" time

2012-01-24T07:51:00.000-06:00

With all of the sickness around here lately we have been looking for things to do.

Sweet Katherine

So one day we all dressed up.

Her mind is always working!!

And did our hair!!

Who is this young lady? This can't be my child!!

And took lots and lots of pictures!!

Oh my!! She looks so big!! She will be 10 soon! Sniff! Sniff!

And it was so much fun!!

My little Sammy Jo!

And since my wall portraits need updated anyway, it was a great activity for mom too!!

She is so gentle and sweet!!

My handsome little "big" boy.

I guess when you watch your mom take pictures of other people all the time,

Look at that grin!!

it is fun to get your turn in front of the camera too!!

Oh how time flies!! He's not a baby any more!

And my big girls are becoming quite the baby wrangler professionals!

He is a walking toddler!!

It turned what could have been another LONG day at home, into a fun, productive, memory making day. That was fun for both mom and kids.

So, the next time you have a day when you and the children need a distraction, grab your camera, a sheet or a quilt, and some fun props and have a photo shoot!

The View from Here....

2012-01-23T07:43:00.000-06:00

My view from here this past week was a little sad.

Look at how the humidifier made his hair curl!!

Pedi a lite popsicles.

So sad!!

Runny noses.

Cutest sick baby I've seen in a long time!!

And sick little boys with 102-103 degree fever.

Just a little side note, if you need a humidifier these from Walgreens are AMAZING!!

Lots of attempts to clear the stuffiness and get fluids into his little body.

See the bruise in his hand?

Things turned from bad to worse. Poor little boy had a trip to the ER on Wednesday.

And ended up with an IV in his hand.

Yes, I'm a weird mom that wanted a picture of his hospital bracelet.

After a week of laying around and being miserably sick, things are finally looking up for poor little Jeremiah. And after not playing much at all for such a long time you should see his newest accomplishment!! But, that is for another post.

Many.

2012-01-17T07:43:00.000-06:00

Trying to photograph a three year old is challenging to say the least.

But the many different faces that you can capture sure can make a person smile!!

And cry at the same time.

Because capturing that "perfect" picture.....

Seems impossible at times.

Good thing she is so cute!!

Jammie Drill

2012-01-12T07:44:00.000-06:00

While reading one of my favorite blogs ( Raising Olives ) around Christmas time I heard her mention their family tradition of "Jammie Drills". So, one evening after dinner, we decided to throw our own Jammie Drill.

Samantha dressed and ready to go

So we dressed the kids in warm jammies.

Children and their "friends"

Grabbed blankets, snacks, and "friends" (stuffed animals).

Little "J" munching a snack

And then we headed out. We drove around town looking at lights,

Anything can be special, even a .69 cent slushie!

enjoying special treats, and singing Christmas carols.

Back home from making lifetime memories

It was one of the children's favorite activities this Christmas and one they are already asking to do again.

Do you have any favorite family traditions? What is your favorite activity to do with your loved ones?

Curls.

2012-01-10T07:52:00.000-06:00

My baby boy is getting so big!!

He is starting to walk now.

He is signing more and more words.

He plays with toys like he sees his siblings do.

And I can see him soaking up his surrondings and learning new things everyday.

But He will always be "my little boy".

And my little boy's curls can melt my heart in an instant.

I will forever be wrapped around his little finger.

Are you?

2012-01-09T12:59:00.000-06:00

Are you suffering from the winter blahs?

With the hype of the holidays behind us do you find yourself unmotivated?

For years I struggled with this time of year. I dreaded January like a mother of five dreads the stomach flu ( and yes we have had that in our home recently and Im already dreading the next time it rears its ugly head). But then I changed the way I looked at it.

You know all the purging and cleaning we usually do in the spring?

Well, now I do mine during the month of January. I always love to be outside during the pretty spring weather and there is planting to do and walks to take and children to push on the swing. Who wants to clean with the beautiful outdoors calling you? NOT ME!!

So, right now I am going room by room and purging, reorganizing, and cleaning. I'm getting ready for spring and all the time we will be spending outside. Instead of leaving all the yearly cleaning for nice weather, I am busy, busy while I am trapped inside making the most of these dark cold days.

What do you do to help pass these cold gray winter days? Do you have any tricks that help you to stay motivated and on task when it is so easy to give into the "let down" of January?

Peace.

2012-01-03T22:44:00.000-06:00

Not many of us live a life without trouble, or noise, or hard work. But how many of us live a life full of peace? That peace can only come from one place.

⁶Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

⁷And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

⁸Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Philippians 4:6-8

Let us turn our hearts toward Christ, focus on prayer, and give thanks to God for the blessings that He has given us. And then we can experience the "peace that passes all understanding" in the midst of chaos of the world.

Love.

2012-01-03T08:09:00.001-06:00

Do you love your job?

I do.

But then why do I find myself dreading it. Trying to "escape" it with anything possible. Some days I use the computer, visits with friends, the phone, or anything else I can find.

But I love my job.

I love serving this family God has blessed me with. I love the feeling of accomplishment in a clean home, helpful children, a peaceful school day, and a well thought out meal.

So why do I find myself just going through the motions doing just enough to get by without the joy that should be seen in my life?

I truly feel it is because my focus is all wrong. I am not focusing on making my Saviour happy. I am focused on me. Making my job easier, getting done as quick as possible so I can have "me" time.

I have become, in some ways, SELFISH!!

And I want it to stop! I want the joy again. I want to put my best into my job for my family. I want a well oiled schedule, a menu plan, finished laundry, and well trained children. And that is going to take work. So, I am lacing up my boots (or putting on my house shoes at least) opening the Word and praying all day. I'm pouring into my children more of the Word and striving each day of 2012 to be a better example of the joy that Christ can bring to my children, my husband, and my world.

Won't you join me?

Please visit again soon as I have many more posts on finding joy in your calling (whatever that may be) on my heart. I'd love for us to find the joy together!!

Love you dear sisters!

The Hype.

2011-12-27T10:33:00.001-06:00

Well, the hype and hustle and bustle of another Christmas season is behind us. And now we turn our focus to plans for the new year. And I can't help but be encouraged by the fact that the true "reason for the season" doesn't fade with the hype. The Christ in the manger is the Christ of the cross, and He is the Christ in my heart. So after the Nativity is put away and the new year begins with new plans and goals, He will still be with me. He is the same today as He was yesterday, as He was when He was a babe in Bethlehem.

And that makes me smile. It gives me a peace that passes understanding and a new resolve to live for Him in the coming year!!

What are your thoughts and feelings as another holiday season passes? Do you struggle with a feeling of sadness and let down as all the hustle and bustle fade? What helps you to focus your heart on Christ at this time?

Merry Christmas

2011-12-22T12:22:00.000-06:00

From our house to yours…….

Merry Christmas!!

2011 - L to R Samantha 7, Maggie 9, Katherine 3, Josiah 5. and Jeremiah 1

I pray that you will find the love of Christ this coming year. May He fill your home with joy and peace that can only come from Him!

Three.

2011-12-14T07:38:00.001-06:00

It has now been three weeks.

Three weeks of sickness.

Three weeks of fevers and coughs.

Three weeks of vomiting and ear pain.

Three weeks of runny noses and laundry.

The first week was "just" an ear infection for Jeremiah.

Then we had some respitory stuff travel through the house. It was NASTY. They little ones had snot ozzing from not only their noses but also their eyes. The couldn't sleep, couldn't eat and just wanted to be rocked.

Now all of this week so far we have had the stomach flu. It has, as in most homes, created a mountain of laundry every day as well as children that just want to be held. And while I love rocking my children it gets a little stressful to have two crying to be rocked on one side of the bathroom door while I am in the bathroom helping a third clean up after getting sick for the upteenth time that day.

Anyway, all of the fun holiday posting I wanted to do hasn't gotten done, but ministering to my family is more important than this blog. I don't like it when I don't post for days and days, but God knows what is needed and when He provides the time again I will pick back up blogging more often.

I hope you all are having a great holiday season and are finding Jesus around every turn and tradition.

Merry Christmas my friends!

Little things.

2011-12-09T16:42:00.001-06:00

Some days it is the little things.

Like toothpaste tubes with flip tops that don't come off and can't be lost.

It made me smile today.

Is that weird? Have you had a "little thing" moment lately?

One More Time!

2011-12-06T08:05:00.001-06:00

I think I have fixed the comment problem here on Our Heart and Home. So could those of you that were having trouble before please try again. Thank you for your time in trying to help me fix this issue!!! And just to show you how much I appreciate it here is a great picture from the other day.....

Sikes Family 2011

We are now finally all healthy here again and I hope to have our "photo shoot" for our Christmas card today. I'm praying this goes well and I will have a great shot to share with you tomorrow!!

That Special Gift?

2011-12-05T11:46:00.001-06:00

It is that busy time of year. It is my favorite!! I love crafting and shopping and thinking and planning. Focusing on the people that I love the most and achieving the "perfect" gift. I always seem to have that one gift that has me just giddy. The anticipation to give it makes me smile every time I think about it. Last year it was this silly cheap game of Spoons for my Dad. He loves that game and I found this set on Amazon last year and knew it would make him laugh. And he didn't disappoint!

This year it is a dress up set I have spent hours on for Josiah. he has been watching the old Family Channel Zorro sitcoms from the 80's and he has fallen in love with this "hero". I can't wait to see his face when he opens the box!! I even ordered a whip from Vision Forum!! It is a real whip!

Do you have that one special gift that you just can't wait to give?

My Recent Work

2011-12-02T11:20:00.001-06:00

"Little Miss B"
She was such a joy!

My Katherine at Aunt Erin's wedding. It was the first wedding I photographed!

The beautiful bride

Mr and Mrs Brian Kingston

Mr "E" was a little reserved at first but warmed up quickly and did GREAT!

The "O" family

Mom and baby "L"

"E"
He is getting so big!

I just love his smile!

A Great Find!!

2011-11-29T09:12:00.001-06:00

I have recently found an amazing online store. They sell quality toys that are "old-fashion", use your imagination, hold up to many children kind of toys. They have a great selection of family resources for everything from homemaking to leading a family. They sell Christian books, an awesome audio series that teaches Creation in a fun way, and some great exploring equipment for that active boy in your life.

And for the Christmas season they are having a great sale with free shipping!! Please head over and check out Vision Forum and prepare to be impressed! I haven't seen quality toys like this in a long time.

Help.

2011-11-28T07:39:00.001-06:00

I have heard from a couple people that are having trouble leaving comments on this blog. I am wondering how far spread this is so I am asking your help. If you have just a minute could you try to leave a comment on one of my recent posts or even just this one. It doesn't have to be long just HI is fine. I just want to see how many of you can leave a comment. If you can't leave me a comment please email, facebook, or twitter me and let me know of your problem. Thanks!!!

And to make this post much more fun and cute here is one of the shots that I took yesterday of my children. I'm trying to update the frames on the wall and it is proving challenging!!

Sikes family 2011

Merry Christmas!

Just so you know....

2011-11-24T07:47:00.001-06:00

During this season of Thanksgiving I wanted to take a moment and tel you, my readers how thankful I am that you take time out of your busy days to read my little space on the web. I love to read your comments, I and enjoy getting to know you more. So, I wish you a

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

Also, if you are interested in creative ways to teach your children grattitude all year long check out my latest post over at Happily Domestic. It has several ideas that will help your family realize how blessed we are.

True Service

2011-11-14T08:02:00.001-06:00

Josiah "serving" my Dad.

True Christian service takes place outside of the church, not only within its walls.

This is a quote from the message yesterday that has been resounding in my heart and head ever since. How many times do we mentally check off service for God as teaching a class, bringing food to a dinner, giving an offering, or even just attending every service? Many times in my life at least.

But this quote has challenged that way of thinking. While Jesus Christ walked this earth He didn't stay within the "church" walls to preach and to minister. He walked about visiting the invalid, teaching the poor, healing the sick, ministering to the hurting and going to where the people were.

We as Christians should take lesson from this and become more Christ-like in our way of viewing service. When was the last time we as modern day church members blessed a momma that was struggling with a phone call? Or mailed the lonely older couple of the church some cards our children had made? Or do we even know our brothers and sisters in Christ well enough to grab their favorite treat next time we are at the store and deliver to their door? If you found a great sale at the grocery store would you think of blessing someone through it?

True service from the heart touches lives in ways that words cannot describe! When someone knows that you think about them even when you are not at church it speaks volumes to them. So, today I challenge you to think of your fellow church members, your pastor, and those lost around you. Start a mission to get to know your church family well enough that you can bless them in tangible ways. And be an example of true Christian service.

How do you practice true Christian service outside of your church walls? Have you ever been blessed by someone that thought of you outside of the church building? (My family and I were just this month when a couple of wonerful families blessed us with some grocery gift cards. Such a great way to bless any family!! Who can't use help with the cost of food now days?)

Share your heart, please!!

Speaking Peace

2011-11-10T08:03:00.000-06:00

Oh how our children copy what they hear!! From the saying in their favorite movie to the way we mommas talk to them every day, the mimic and learn from every word that is spoken. So, it only makes sense that our children will talk and sound most like the people they are with every day. And for many children, that is their mother.

I have started to make a HUGE effort to soften my words. To stop what I am doing and get down to my three year old's to give instructions so that she understands and can be held accountable the first time instead of me yelling at her after she still hasn't put shoes on after the third command.

Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

Soft words by momma make peace with in the home. I am training my children to speak peace, to offer patience, and to be long suffering. It is better to stop and take a few extra seconds to look someone in the eye and speak to them firmly but softly then to yell across the house and then get mad when they don't respond.

So, to create peace in my home I am speaking softly and taking the time to speak to directly to my children instead of yelling our orders. And you know what? It is working!! Obedience is growing, their words to each other are softening and peace is being created every day in our home.

I love you dear sisters and I pray that you are blessed by sacrificing your time to read my humble thoughts. Thank you for stopping by.

Amanda

Creating Peace.

2011-11-07T08:21:00.000-06:00

Is your house filled with yelling children, loud talk, spiteful words, and hasty action. Does choas reign within your walls and make you want to hide in the bathroom? I am on a journey to create peace within my home. I want my home to be a relaxing place for people to come. Not place where they have to go into therapy for stress rehab when they leave.

Psalm 34:14
Depart from evil, and do good; seek peace, and pursue it.

Now my home is occupied by five young children so I know there are times when the running, giggling, screaming choas will fill these walls. But as I want my children to learn a good work ethic, I want them to learn the discipline of knowing when it is appropriate to be loud and wild and when we need to "seek peace and pursue it". If we are truly striving to create peace within our homes we must be "at peace" in our hearts. True peace can only come with true contentment.

But as I have been focusing on creating peace I have realized a few things. Most of which are not encouraging to this journey toward a peace-filled home. The first of which seems the most obvious and yet we sometimes don't take it into account. It is the fact that our homes are filled with sinners!!! And that makes our homes unperfect and everyone within our walls will have bad days. We must train our children to mature to the point that they can rise above these days but just as we mommas have bad days so do our children. Also, our children mimic what they see and hear. So if we cram our days so full or "stuff" with no organization and not enough time to accomplish the daily needs in our home WE are feeding the choas. If children hear constant barking of orders, hurry ups, and frustrated sighs, that is how they will deal with their siblings. Which does not sound peaceful when multiplied by five children.

So, my first step in creating peace has been to creat peace within myself. I have been trying to be more organized so that we are not so stressed and rushed when trying to prepare a meal or clean up the house before Daddy gets home. I want those memories to be peaceful ones of my children and I working together and when you remove the stress of unorganization and bad planning, we can play some music, work together and enjoy it. If I am not organized and have waited until the last minute then I am barking orders faster than the children can move and creating chaos as we all run from one thing to the next with no order.

I have also been focusing on finding joy and contentment no matter what life brings. If I had outdoor plans and wake to a rainy, cloudy day I am striving to be peaceful in that. So instead of an outing to the park we play playdough, bake some cookies, or make some cards.

Will you join me on my journey to creating peace with in my home? Next I will be focusing on words. How do our simple spoken words create peace or chaos?

How do you create peace within your home?

It's my Party!!

2011-11-03T06:47:00.000-06:00

Let the fun begin!!

I like what I see!!

This boy love love loves books!! He actually squealed in delight.

The paper was the best part of unwrapping!

My birthday outfit (there will be "official" pictures coming soon!)

The cake

I. Can't. Believe. It. One. Year!!!

He was so excited all night. It was great!

He did not disappoint in the "messy cake picture" area!

He dove into it and stuffed it in with both hands!!

Oh the memories!

2011-11-02T07:24:00.001-06:00

Ready and waiting. Praying for a calm day!

I knew within two minutes of birth it wasn't good. He was retracting on the table so badly I could see it around the room. And though the nurses kept saying it's just taking some time but he would be fine.

My momma's heart already knew what was coming.

It isn't the most happy or the prettiest birth story, but it is his and so I share it.

Happy Birthday Baby Boy!!!

Almost

2011-10-31T07:23:00.001-06:00

My baby's first birthday is almost here. It was a day that we had looked forward to as a family for months. We had prayed for a healthy baby boy. We readied the room, we packed the bag, and then we waited for the day to come.

We waited in faith, knowing that whatevered happened it was in God's hands. But it was a wrestling match of the wills to say the least. One will that clung to the promises and faithfulness of my Savior and one that wanted to cast doubt and play the "what-if" game. And as the day got closer the battle became more intense. I longed to hold my baby, but the fear of the unkown took my breath away.

I wanted to trust my Savior, He had never let me down. We had walked that road of a sick baby once, surely no one would be called to walk it again. Right? But there was no garuntee, except that God had a plan and His will was perfect and that is what I wanted. So, I waited......

Do you struggle with waiting? Do you have to fight the whispers of Satan to doubt God's faithfulness and love for your life? Man, it is a daily struggle for me. And with the "anniversary" of a hard sesaon it seems to bring lots of emotions back to the surface doesn't it? This week I am wrestling again with accepting God's plan and truly KNOWING that His will is perfect no matter what it looks like here on Earth.

Stay tuned this week for lots of photo session previews and birthday fun as it is Jeremiah's first birthday this week!!!

Oh Oh!!!

2011-10-30T14:53:00.000-06:00

Look at the little boy sitting on the floor,

What oh what has he found behind the door!

He wants to taste just a little more!

Now Mommy has an extra chore!!

A Date

2011-10-26T22:10:00.000-06:00

A last minute "adjustment" from her big sister.

Samantha had been saving her money for a "date" with Daddy. She was taking him out for his birthday.

We curled, and dressed, and primped for this special occasion.

She was so excited!

And while I helped my little girl get ready for her big day I could help but think about all the time when my sisters and I helped each other get ready for other "big" days. And in just about a week now I will help my youngest sister get ready for her "big day".

Oh my I just might cry!!! Time goes by so fast!! And before I know it it won't be Daddy!!

Engamnent Photo Session

2011-10-26T08:15:00.000-06:00

I had the pleasure of photographing my sister and her "soon-to-be" husband. We had a lot of laughs during the shoot and I couldn't be happier for them. When they are together you can see the bond that they share already.

Though I haven't spent a great deal of time with Brian in person I have already come to love him.

And even though "he" is taking my sister 7 hours away again,

I really do like the guy!

He is an amazing Godly man that serves the Lord with his entire being.

He desires to be used of God and to lead His family in ministry to Christ.

Both of them have an amazing amount of passion for family, friends and ministry.

And I can't wait to see the things that these two will accomplish for Christ and His kingdom.

I couldn't be a pouder "big" sister!!

A little glimpse....

2011-10-26T08:13:00.001-06:00

There is a lot going on around my household right now. We are living life, ministering to others, and growing in the Lord.

We are also.....

preparing for a wedding in less than two weeks
planning a wedding reception the week after that (that involves feeding about 120 people)
looking forward to my first neice/nephew being born in May
gearing up for Daddy to be on vacation three different weeks between now and the new year
welcoming a new baby at church
practicing for our church Christmas play
studying the thirteen colonies right now which will lead into our Thanksgiving unit
reading through Exodus in family worship
working on Christmas orders for hats and scarves
getting in some end of summer park days and outside play
hosting a bar-b-que

As you can see, life is full and I am loving it!!! Here are some pictures of our "fall" activities...

We took a walk and then made posters out of the things that the children collected.

Everyone worked hard and created some awesome "masterpieces"!!

Jeremiah has become a HUGE Daddy's boy and even some mornings will cry when Daddy leaves for work. And while I am so glad that he loves his daddy, it still makes me a little sad. :)

Photo Sessions - Newborn shoots

2011-10-20T09:23:00.000-06:00

I am begining to pursue my photography passion a little more so I thought I would share some of my work with you all this week. So, today it is some of the snuggly newborns I've had the pleasure of photographing this summer.

I am currently booking sessions

for all ages,

individuals,

families,

or even a group.

Please email me at asikesfamily@gmail.com for pricing and availability.

Juggling

2011-10-17T07:01:00.000-06:00

Can you juggle? Not many people can with balls, but every momma I know is an expert juggler. She tends to children, while washing the clothes, while dinner is cooking, and the dishes are being ashed. She keeps all the tasks "spinning" at the same time and seldom does anything "come crashing down". Join me today at Happily Domestic for more of my thoughts on juggling.

A big time!

2011-10-13T08:00:00.001-06:00

There's been a lot of growing and changing around here.

A new deck and a baby boy that is learning more everyday!

New foods and self feeding! Doesn't every baby need a "spaghetti picture"?

And becoming a pro at drinking from a cup.

With the coming of a new season comes many changes around here. School is in full swing. The garden is almost done for the year. And we are gearing up for some fall fun. This is my favorite season and I can't wait to share some of our "fall" happenings with you!

Have a great day!

Added to the Kitchen

2011-10-13T06:56:00.002-06:00

Check out all the recipes that I now have linked on my "From the Kitchen" page. All of the recipes are tried and true family favorites. Leave me a comment if there is something you would like a recipe for or if you try one let me know what your family thought!! Thank you for your patience as I add to and grow "Our Heart and Home"

Do You?

2011-10-05T06:52:00.000-06:00

I am struggling right now? I love homeschooling, and I love being home with my children. And I love living my life with my children in tow. But I am struggling right now. How do you balance homeschooling with life. I want school to be a part of our life and not a master over it. I don't want to live around school but rather school around life. But where is that balance?

Singing our Bible verse song - It is a favorite this year!!

How do I know if my children are on target in things such as spelling and writing? How many problems do I make my fourth grader do when there are 15 addition problems in ONE section of her math lesson? How many hours does it take others to school?

Reading class on the couch - It's one of the perks of homeschooling

Just a season of doubt, I guess.

But, how do you put those to rest? Will I ever be confident that I am doing this well? Will we ever have a routine that we can stick to for more than two weeks? What about grocery shopping? and ministry? and play dates? and field trips? How do you stay on routine when you leave the house even once a week?

Anyway, if you have any ideas, places that I can find "benchmarks" for grade levels, a post about what your homeschool looks like, etc I would love to see them. I will try to read them. But along with this season of doubt comes a season of drowning. School is taking FOREVER right now and thus "backing up" my other momma duties like cooking, laundry, etc. And I still have a baby that nurses every 4 hours. So, to say I am busy is an understatement. But I am choosing to love life and embrace where God has planted me. So, tonight I will rest in His peace and wake tomorrow with a deep breath and a peace that only God can give and I will try to focus on one thing at a time. And allow God to put my doubt to rest in His time and His way.

Are you doubting an area in your life right now? I would love to pray for you. Leave me a comment and I will pray for your peace whenever I am overcome with doubt in this season and I am praying for myself. It's what sisters do!!

Fall

2011-10-03T07:16:00.000-06:00

The temperature is dropping and the leaves are falling. The season of Fall is upon us. I love this season and it truly is my favorite. I love so many things about it. But this year every time I read the word or talk about fall my mind turns to another meaning of "fall". My heart is focused on "fall"ing. Falling deeper in love with Christ. Learning to "fall" into His will in complete surrender. His will might not look like what I thought it would. It might be full of pain, sorrow, loss, or rejection. But I want to "fall" into it knowing that His will is

PERFECT.

If I fall in love with Christ, and fall completely into His will, I will find peace and joy. The world will not understand it. I might not even understand it. But there will be a peace that passes all understading in even the hardest of situations. So, I am focused on

FALLING.

Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

I have been through hard times as I watch both of my boys struggle for life. I have cried as I have watched friends walk a hard road. I have grieved at the bedside of family and friends. But this I have found true......... In His will, there is peace.

Will you "fall" into His love and perfect will for your life today?

(If you have any questions about this or other things you read on my blog, please ask. I would love to share more with you.)

3rd.

2011-09-29T13:53:00.001-06:00

Happy Birthday to Kate!!

Happy birthday to YOU!!

We all love you, too!!

Happy Birthday to Kate!!

Dear Katherine,

You are growing so quickly! You are such a talkitive, giggly little thing. You most often can be found in the kitchen with mommy or rocking your baby to sleep. You also love to climb and play outside. You are growing up to be such a super young lady. Thank you for bringing so much joy into our home. I thank God that He choose me to be your mommy!! Follow Him Baby Kate and let Him direct your life. You will do amazing things for Him. I love you!!!

Love Mommy

Just a Pickin'

2011-09-28T07:29:00.001-06:00

We went

over the river, and through the woods

But not to Grandma's house yesterday.

Although Grandma was with us!

It was apple pickin'

picture takin'

corn inspectin'

hard playin'

ladder climbin'

proud of ourselves kinda day!

Something old, something new.

2011-09-26T11:06:00.002-06:00

while Jeremiah crawling might be "old" news now.......

He also has some "new" news too.....

He now has 4 teeth! With 2 more almost poking through it will soon be 6!

And yes, as you could probably tell I have all things wedding on the brain! I've been shower planning, dress shopping envelope addressing, and reception menu planning in addition to schooling, homemaking, mothering, and being a helpmeet to my wonderful husband. So, while my posting has slowed just remember my life hasn't and that is why I'm posting less!!

Maternity

2011-09-19T22:39:00.000-06:00

I had my first maternity photo shoot this weekend. Would you like to see the results? Just click HERE to be taken to the Facebook album. I hope you leave me some feedback of ways to improve or your thoughts. Thank you!

I also wanted my dear readers to know that my youngest sister has recently gotten engaged and is getting married on Novemeber 5th!!! Yes, that is six short weeks away and since she is living in my basement and I am her oldest sister this has filled my calander to over-flowing!! Add to that the start of school and I must ask you to bear with me if posting slows a little. I am not giving up blogging and I hope you will continue to visit Our Heart and Home during this busy time in my life.

Service

2011-09-16T08:55:00.000-06:00

Service is something we should all model. It's a life style that should be effident to every person that we meet. Are you teaching your children to live a life a service? Join me today over at Happily Domestic where I share my thoughts and my heart for training children for a life of service.

It's Party Time

2011-09-13T10:25:00.000-06:00

I've had some questions lately about parties in our house. I've gotten some comments regarding frugal party throwing. So, I thought I would write a post about some of my party throwing techniques. We host an open house in our home for our church once a month, and try to host company at least a time or two a month and as you know hosting company can get expensive. So here are some of my tips to offer hospitality often but not break the bank.

Cook Ahead - I love freezer cooking!! And I have applied it to my hosting also. I keep a "stash" of quick breads and cookies in the deep freeze for last minute invites, drop by guests and those days where I run out of time when company is coming and I need a dessert. This keeps me from having to run out at the last minute and buy a $7 bakery dessert.
Plan Wisely - And I don't mean just when the opportunity to host comes up. I have a list of easy, inexpensive appetizers to choose from each time I host. Most of these appetizers can be done ahead of time, and go far, and don't cost a bunch. Here are some ideas.

Corn chips and salsa (I buy these at Sam's in the industrial size cans and they are even cheaper)
Pigs in a blanket (Sometimes I make the buscuit dough and other times I buy the cheap buscuits from Aldi or Save A Lot to save time)
Cinnamon Crisps - I cut flour tortillas into wedges, fry in a little bit of oil and toss in cinnamon sugar
Sloppy Joes - the meat can be made even days ahead of time and frozen
Taco bar - have each guest bring a topping

Be willing to work - Don't just buy soda because it's easy, make the time to make tea, lemonade, etc. They are much cheaper and don't require all that much effort. Also, unless we are having a large group of people over I don't use throw away dishes. I just make sure the dish washer is empty before the party starts and use my everyday stuff. Doesn't take that much time, but sure does save a dime!!!
Start late - start the party a half hour later and only offer desserts and snacks instead of the whole meal. Most of the time people won't even miss the food because they are still getting to fellowship with friends.

So, there are some of my ideas for throwing frugal parties. If you come to my house, don't expect fancy decorations or elaborate meals, but I pray that you will find a welcoming spirit, good fellowship that pleases the Lord, and food that you can enjoy.

I hope these ideas help. If you have any specific questions I would love for you to ask in a comment and I will follow up with you or in another post. Now go and offer Godly hospitality to those around you!!

Amanda

Vacation

2011-09-10T22:14:00.000-06:00

This week is our yearly vacation. So we will be camping, fishing, sight seeing, and spending oodles and oodles of time as a family. But this year we are doing it closer to home. We are spending most of the week out on my parent’s farm. It is only about a half hour away but our far enough that there are no neighbors to be seen, no internet to pull, no emails to answer, and very little cell phone service to interrupt. So it will be a laid back week and to make the whole thing even better it it supposed to cool off around here!!! We have been in the 100’s still lately but this coming week it’s highs in the 70’s and lows in the 50’s!!!
And that, in my book, is great camping and bonfire weather!!
So, I’ve set a few posts to auto-publish and I’ll be “connected” when we do come back into town to water the garden, check the mail, and probably pick up something we forgot. Have a great week!! And enjoy the weather!! I hope it is beautiful wherever you are!!
Amanda

Daily Life

2011-09-07T05:00:00.000-06:00

I’ve been thinking a lot about the day in and day out dealings of a large family. They really are much different than your “average” size family. For instance, many mothers have never….

Used an entire loaf of bread in one meal for just their family
Poured milk in everyone’s glass and over their cereal only to look down and see the brand new gallon of milk almost empty.
Done 7 loads of laundry in one day and still not finished it all.
Looked online for plans to build bunk beds three beds high.
Bought ketchup in a one gallon container.
Bought 25 lbs of oatmeal.
Looked at the number of snacks contained in a package and thought, that’s crazy it would only go around once and it’s $2!!
Used an entire 2 liter of soda in one meal.

And yet, this is my life. Every day, day in and day out I find myself laughing about some crazy thing my family does or requires. I know this life isn’t for everyone and that doesn’t make you right or my right or anyone wrong. It just makes us different and that is fine. And no matter what your family size or structure, I sure do hope you enjoy it as much as I enjoy mine!! Have a blessed day serving the family God has blessed you with.
Amanda

Climb.

2011-09-01T06:52:00.001-06:00

Climb. Climb. Up sunshine mountain.

Or, in Samantha's case.....

The door frame!

She will climb up here and just hang there and chat with me while I am cooking dinner. It startles people at first, but we don't even blink an eye at it anymore. We all just walk under her and keep on going.

What a crazy girl!!!

New.

2011-08-31T06:54:00.001-06:00

So, what do you think? Of my new design that is? It is finally updated!!! It's been long enough don't you think?!?

I am so pleased with it. And I hope you like it too! Along with the new blog design today I bring you a video of another new happening at our house.............

Yep, we now have five mobil children in our house. Jeremiah learned to crawl on Tuesday (9/30) evening. And now my life is officially CRAZY!!!

And now, another "new" thing in our life. The long over-due pictures of our new van.

Yes, as many people have told us, it looks like a church van.

We are loving all the space! And I guess it makes us an "official" large family. Seems as if all large families drive these "buses"!!

Under.

2011-08-29T21:57:00.001-06:00

Under Construction is what we are.

A new look is coming soon!!

Thoughts.

2011-08-29T07:18:00.000-06:00

This week is a crazy busy week for us!!

I am heading up our homeschool groups "End of Summer Picnic" on Thursday. And I am cleaning, cooking, and packing for our "stay"cation next week. While it is a "stay"cation, we are actually "staying" at my mom's. We are doing this because our on the farm we can have bone fires, sleep out in the tent if it is cool enough, and they have the big pool. We are still hunting down ideas of things to do around the St. Louis area. If you have any suggestions for us please leave me a comment. I would love any help I can get.

But before the picnic and packing begins, my heart is heavy today. You see two of my dearest friends and church members are having biopsies today. Man, that "C" word is scary!! Just the thought of these two mommas walking that road with children so young just takes my breath away. They are burdened today, and will be until Wednesday when the results are supposed to be in, I am sure. Would you lift them up and pray with me? Let's help out these fellow momma's by bearing their burden through prayer today please. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

May God bless you dear readers today as you serve Him wherever He has planted you "for such a time as this".

Bedtime

2011-08-26T13:15:00.000-06:00

Bedtime.

It is a time of day that draws the line in the sand between parents and children. One is desperate for the day to end and quiet to finally reign. The other side is ready for a few more hours of rough and tumble play.

We are getting ready to begin a new school year and with the end of summer comes the return of stricter more structured bedtime routine here in our home.

Our bedtime routine starts at 8:00pm with a light snack and some milk for the children after they are dressed for bed. When they finish their snack they brush their teeth and go potty. Then they head to the couch.

During this time we talk about our day, deal with any issues that might have come up between the children and I during the day with Daddy, and spend some time with each other. Then when the last child is seated and ready Daddy transitions into our family worship time. This time can look different depending on the night. Some nights it is a round of Bible Challenge DVD game, some its Daddy reading from the Scriptures to us, and even others it could be a Bible Drill or question and answer time. We try to keep it fun but also respectful and reverent. During this time we work with the little ones on sitting quietly and I normally nurse the baby sleep.

Then around 9:00pm we send some of the children (we have some that struggle with night time wetting) potty one more time, diaper those that need it and everyone heads to bed. We are very firm with the children about staying in bed once the lights are out. And most of the time, they do well. Every once in awhile, one will go through a spell of calling/getting up and then we will have a tussle but it usually doesn't last more than a couple nights and then we are back to peaceful evenings.

I am wondering what bedtime looks like in your house? Set bedtime? Certain number books? Snack or no Snack? Would you share with me how you handle bedtime.

Yes Mom.

2011-08-24T06:48:00.000-06:00

I have been trying to, this past year, be more of a "yes" mom. I have been trying to say "no" only to things that really aren't a good idea. If something makes a mess, we will clean it up. If something takes some time, I will make it. So the other day, I had a victory!!!!

Kate had some "dirty" dishes that just HAD to be washed. So, I said "yes" and she was so pleased to be able to "wash" her own dishes after she fed her baby. Another yes moment that didn't hurt anything. It just created memories and made this momma smile.

I am really enjoying being a "YES" momma!

A Day in the Life...

2011-08-22T20:55:00.009-06:00

of a mother of five.

6:00am - Rise with baby and nurse and snuggle for an hour.

7:00am - Up with hubby, packing his lunch and seeing him out the door.

7:30am - Baby is back to sleep and I get started for the day. It's Monday so this is laundry and Home Blessing day. I start the washer and unload the dishwasher and promptly reload it from Sunday ( I don't do housework on Sunday).

8:00am - I get the master bedroom cleaned and the bathroom as well.

8:30am - Start my tomato sauce(that I prepped from our harvest of tomatoes last week) simmering and my beans soaking. The big girls are up now and I head out the garden leaving the little ones in their care.

9:00am - While in the garden I discover that over the weekend we have been taken over by tomato worms and they have done a number on my beautiful tomato patch. So I run inside, thankful to find the girls have dressed the little ones already and tell them all to load up in the van. I make a quick run to our local farm co-op store for something to rid us of these pesky and UGLY bugs.

9:45 - I am back in the garden and picking away. I get the picking down. Dust the tomatoes with the powder I brought home with me and I head back inside. I change a dirty diaper and love on the baby a little.

10:30- I start another load of laundry, call my mom to finish last minute details about our dinner together tonight and my girls' week long stay with them, and wash all the garden produce that I picked and feed the baby his lunch.

11:15am - Get the mail, receive a letter in the mail requiring my response so I make a phone call. Then I wait on hold for ever and finally am able to talk with a person for all of 5 minutes. Problem taken care of and I'm off the phone. I help clean another dirty bottom in the bathroom and change a wet diaper.

11:45am - Sit down for just a minute. I start this post, drink my third bottle of water for the day, and nurse my baby to sleep.

12:10 - Make lunch for big kids, talk with them about what I want accomplished this afternoon, and eat a bowl of leftover stir-fry for lunch and allow myself a glass of sweet tea.

12:40 - Check on my sister who started her in home daycare today. I'm anxious to hear how it's going.

12:45 - Check my email, update this post, do some work on my next post for Happily Domestic.

1:15pm - I help anothe child in the bathroom, answer the phone, and get playdough out for the little ones. The big girls and I start to fold the 4 loads of laundry that are sitting in the laundry room.

1:20pm - I smell the tomato sauce so I stir it and while I'm in the kitchen I clean up lunch, start the beans to cook for taco salad tonight and unload the dishwasher.

2:25 - Most of the laundry is folded. Big girls went through their drawers and closets and got out clothing for yard sale. We are paring down this week BIG TIME!! I also comforted Kate for the third time today as she realized yet again that she isn't spending the night at Grandma's with the big girls. Tears. Tears. Tears. But she is better now and I'm off to fold diapers and go through Kate's clothing.

2:54 - Another potty break, this one for me. Man that water keeps flowing!!! Baby is awake now. Time for snack for the big kids. And must put the last load into the dryer. I'm getting tired. Maybe a pick me up of my homemade high protien snack mix will help.

4:01pm - Pushed through the "sleepies" and got the last of the laundry folded and put away. Tomato sauce is done and cooling. All the floors have finally been vaccumed and the bedding changed. Now I'm hoping to clean up the clothing mess that was created by the down-sizing after I nurse the baby. If there's one thing that I've learned lately it is that there is always tomorrow and trying to do "one more thing" late in the afternoon adds tons of stress to my day. So, now I stop at 4:00 and finish up the day before my husband gets home.

4:42 - House is ready for daddy to come home. Now I'm off to change and dress children for dinner at my mom's tonight.

5:35 - Husband worked late and it ended up being to my benefit. I got side-tracked on here earlier writing emails and such and just now finished my food. Now nursing the baby and heading out to mom's.

10:00pm - We are home now and I am missing my girls already. They are staying at my mom's until Friday. I'm headed to bed to read my Bible and relax for a minute before bed.

It's been a busy day. But it always is. It's been fun, this blogging about my day. I hope you have enjoyed it too!

Planning.

2011-08-22T09:57:00.000-06:00

This week I am planning our new school year. Neck deep in books and paper, and pencils. I'm school supply shopping and I'm loving it! Here is the line up for this year.

Pre-school and K (younger two kids ages 3 and 5) - Sonbeams

Math - Abeka 2nd and 4th grade

English and Phonics - Abeka 2nd and 4th grade

History, Science, Health, Social Studies - Lots of read alouds, some Abeka, some Bob Jones, and some Missouri Conservation resources.

Bible - Little Talks with God, Memorize various passages, Character studies

Life Skills - Focusing this winter on sewing and cooking for the girls. Some projects I have in mind are baby blankets, busy books for them to give as Christmas gifts, and throw pillows. I also hope to have Maggie be comfortable with at least three complete meals from start to table. I also hope to find a book on manners and table settings and such. I am really looking forward to this project this year.

Kate.

2011-08-15T07:53:00.000-06:00

Oh my beautiful little girl!

She is her own person!

The other day she thought she would add to that person.

And put a "little" make-up on.

She was very proud of her ability and I was quite surprised at the lack of mess made.

Katherine is a climber and an explorer and you should never underestimate her ability to reach something. If she sets her mind to it she can usually reach it. And this time was no exception.

Gotta love her!!

And she is pretty cute too! (at least I think so)

Nine.

2011-08-12T10:58:00.000-06:00

He has now been alive as long as I was pregnant with him. Nine months. So much time but it passes so quickly.

He is a bundle of joy. He is crawling and eating table food.

He is a chubby, chunky, rolly-polly little boy.

Who had two teeth on his nine month birthday, when these pictures were taken, but now has three.

He's my cloth diaper wearing, momma lovin' little man!

Jeremiah,

I love you so much! You are army crawling all over the place now. You love your walker and being outside. You are eating better now but still only a little bit here and there. Your main source of food is still momma and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I love our nursing times together. We are working on you putting yourself to sleep in your own bed. Sometimes it works well and other times you just want momma to rock you. And I am totally ok with that. You love your siblings and they can make you laugh and laugh. I can see a special bond forming between you and Josiah and it melts my heart. You are such a good baby and I am proud to be your mommy. I thank God that He choose us to add you to our family.

Love,

Momma

Just.

2011-08-02T08:08:00.000-06:00

Just some sentences toady. No pictures, sorry.

Today Jeremiah turns 9 months. His monthly update post will be coming soon. That post will have pictures, I promise!

If I seem to be MIA it is because I am. My garden is in full harvest mode and I am spending about an hour a day picking and another hour a day slicing, shelling, snapping, and cutting. I've shelled about a gallon of peas in the past two days, sliced and froze a quart of peppers, a gallon of okra and I still have more to do.

Summer is winding down for us. The older girls attended VBS last week here in town. They had a blast, but it made for a busy week.

We don't start school until September this year. It is easier to wait until the garden is done and then we always vacation the first week of September. So, we won't start a full load until after that. I love homeschooling!!

I have been over come with thankfulness lately at the life that God has blessed me with. I have five beautiful children that I get to minister to everyday. I am impacting the future with every word that I utter, every chore I demand, and every punishment carried out. Now, how many people can say that about their job!

Miss.

2011-07-29T06:41:00.000-06:00

I will miss this so "they" tell me. And it is a fact that I remind myself of daily.

Embrace this time.

Love the snuggles, the giggles, and the mess for it will soon be a thing of the past.

But some days, I feel like I am walking on the beach crunching in the sand and yet I am only walking in my kitchen!!

Helping Hand

2011-07-26T15:17:00.000-06:00

I love to be in the kitchen.

I especially love to be in the kitchen with the ones that I love helping me.

And right now, I am seldom in the kitchen alone.

If Katherine hears me in there she grabs a chair and wants to "watch".

But seldom does it stop at watching.

And soon enough she herself has her hands messy and is busy as a bee in the kitchen.

And it warms my heart.

Oh brother!!

2011-07-22T06:30:00.000-06:00

Oh the love that these two share.

She never minds holding him. No matter what she is doing, she loves to have him by her side. Whether eating, playing, reading, playing the piano and even doing her school work she loves to include him.

But at only 9 she sometimes doesn't realize how fast a baby can be or how far they can reach.

And that makes for some messy learning experiences.

But she loves him.

Messy hands and messy face. No matter what he splashes, spits, or sprays on her, she doesn't stop. He can still be found on her hip or on her lap or by her side most of the day.

Summer.

2011-07-19T06:39:00.000-06:00

Our days right now are busy and full. The weather is hot and the days are long.

Many evenings find us outside even after dinner.

Playing. Mowing. Running. Smiling.

Swinging on our new tire swing.

Getting dirtier by the minute.

Even engaging in a game of "chase" before the night is out.

And then, as night falls and we head inside all hot and sweaty, summertime touches one more area of our home, our poor bathtub. The dirt of summer doesn't spare anyone or anything its mark.

What things are you enjoying this summer?

Meaningful Mondays.

2011-07-18T07:03:00.000-06:00

It's been awhile since I have done this but I really like starting out my week focusing on my blessings. Striving to see my life through thankful lenses as God poors out blessings into my life. So, here are 10 of the things that right now I am particularly thankful for.

Window blinds to help shield us from the sun's hot rays this week when the temp is supposed to be over 100 degrees.
A garden that is producing and blooming in mass proportions. The Lord is blessing and I look for the harvest to be record.
Children that help without being asked, sometimes.
A church family that loves to fellowship.
Church leaders that are truly following Christ. Who are willing to try something new even if it is out of their "comfort zone".
A little girl who loves her daddy so much she texts him through out the day.
A full night's sleep with no interuptions.
Dinner tonight with my Dad. I still, though married for 10 years, enjoy cooking for him like I used to do while I was still at home.
Old sitcoms that are clean, that we can watch as a family.
New nursing bras! Might seems silly but I needed them badly and now my back doesn't hurt and I haven't had a headache since I got them! I hope that it lasts!

Would you share with me one thing you are grateful for? Or one thing heavy on your mind so that I can pray for you?

Join Me?

2011-07-14T13:25:00.001-06:00

Want to find out how we are staying on track with our schooling this summer? Check out my post today over at Happily Domestic where I am the newest contributor.

Introducing!!

2011-07-12T06:46:00.000-06:00

The newest contributor on Happily Domestic. I will be writing with Beth and the other contributors and I couldn't be more excited! Please hop on over there and spread some of your comment love around! I am looking forward to what God is going to do with this new partnership.

My.

2011-07-11T06:47:00.000-06:00

My how time flies. I'm already a week late with this post. Our "little" Jeremiah turned 8 months last week and its time for another milestone post.

Here is what he is up to this month -

Now has two teeth.
Is almost mobile. Between scooting and reaching and twisting he gets what he wants most of the time.
Sleeps from about 9:30 - 5:00am most nights. Then he goes back to sleep and sleeps until 8am.
Still is mostly nursing although he is coming to love TABLE food more and more. He still wants nothing to do with "baby" food.
He is still the happiest, smiliest baby I have ever seen. Everybody that meets him comments on how happy he is. He always has a smile for you!

Happy 8 month Birthday Jeremiah!!

Indoor Fun

2011-07-08T06:52:00.000-06:00

I first wrote this post for Beth over at Happily Domestic. And while these ideas are great "rainy day" fun they also work while stuck inside avoiding the heat. I have several friends that are expecting or just had a new baby so outside time in the heat isn't a good thing. So, here are my ideas to break up the long summer days of staying indoors.

The first activity is one that I did as a child and I am sure that most of us did. I find though that as time passes sometimes we need a reminder of the simplest things. So, in honor of yesteryears, here is my first activity......

....build a fort.

The next activity might seem silly at first or you might not think your children could like something like that. But please, give it a try. My children LOVE this one. Even my older children ages 8 and 6 still play this for hours when I get it out. So grab your spoons, measuring cups, muffin tins and ......

....your beans.

Every mother loves good clean fun so this next activity should make every one of you smile!

It's shaving cream art. Pile it, spread it, draw in it, and then wipe it up and the tables all clean. A little shaving cream goes a long way so start with a little and add more as needed. I would advise to test the shaving cream carefully if using on finished wood tables. The safest place for this activity is a folding table or child's play table. It's the safest bet.

Another idea?

Bag Bread

So, there you have four of my favorite ideas for rainy days. I could go on and on with this list. I could add bake cookies, do arts and crafts, read a good book, snuggle with some hot chocolate and a good movie, or sing and dance to some great music. But, most of those things are just things that we mommas do to keep our sanity when everyone is cooped up for the day. I hope that these ideas help you to make wonderful memories with your family. And maybe to even look forward to the next rainy day.

Fourth.

2011-07-07T11:38:00.000-06:00

It was a busy weekend. And I fit in lots of photo taking time. I'm still learning and loving my new camera.

We played with precision.

We had a birthday and swam like fishes for hours.

We tied and climbed.

We picniced and laughed.

We wore ourselves plum out!! It was a blast!

Fresh Salsa (with link up)

2011-07-01T07:05:00.000-06:00

Happy Friday! It's the start to a long weekend! And here in the midwest the heat is kicking it up a notch so all this summer time, let's not heat the kitchen much recipes, are going to come in handy. So, do you have a recipe for today? Write a blog post and add your link. Or leave me the recipe in your comment (it doesn't matter how long it is). Here is my last recipe -

Fresh Salsa

3-4 large tomatoes

2 cucumbers

1 onion

ccilantro (fresh or dried, to taste)

1 tsp garlic

1 tbsp lime juice (Ive used lemon juice or vinegar when needed and it was just as yummy)

Combine and chill.

Note - This salsa is wonderfully light and simple like this. I've played around with this recipe a lot and you can't really mess it up. My husband likes things on the spicy side so I have added chili powder and red pepper to it at times. Sometimes I feel it needs a little salt. Sometime I add lots of cilantro and other times just a pinch. It's kinda fun to throw it all together and have a new and different tasting salsa each time. And when the garden is in full swing all of these ingredients should be at your fingertips!

Macaroni Salad (with tuna please)

2011-06-30T07:53:00.000-06:00

Macaroni Salad

Dressing -

2 cups mayo or miracle whip

1/2 cup sugar

1/4 cup vinegar

3 tsp mustard

1 can sweetened condensed milk

Salad -

1 1/2 pound elbow macaroni (cooked according to package)

1 green pepper, diced

1 onion, diced

1 carrot, grated or diced

6 hard boiled eggs, diced

Combine all salad ingredients. Blen dressing until smooth and pour over salad reserving 1 cup. Chill in fridge and add the last cup of dressing right before serving.

I love this salad! Sometimes for picnics, potlucks, etc I step it up a notch and stir in 2-4 cans of tuna depending on how much protien I want to add and a couple handfulls of shredded cheddar. It is AMAZING this way and then it is a complete meal! Grab some bowl and spoons and a bowl of this salad and you are ready for a picnic!

Don't forget the link up tomorrow!! And check out my other posts from this week long "Summer Recipe" series.

Summer Recipes Continued

2011-06-29T09:01:00.000-06:00

Well, today will be no exception. It is only 10am and it is already warming up outside. So here I am having just come in from weeding the garden. I love working in the soil and I love passing on that love to my children. Anywho, here is the next recipe in this series. It is for a super simple but yummy dessert that can be whipped up in just minutes and requires no cooking at all. I don't normally like lemon desserts but I LOVE this dessert. It's one of my favorites!

Lemon Icebox Pie

1 small tub cool whip

1 can sweetened condensed milk

1/2 cup lemon juice

1 graham cracker crust (you can buy premade or I usually just make my own because I have small children and I always have graham crackers on hand!)

Stir first three ingredients together until smooth and pour into crust. Chill until set or about an hour. Serve topped with more cool whip or just straight up which is how I like it!

Hope you enjoy!

Summer Recipe #2

2011-06-28T07:55:00.000-06:00

Bar-B-Que Chicken Sandwiches

Cooked and cubed chicken

Sliced cheese

Hamburger buns

Bar-b-que Sauce

Open buns and lay the bottom on a cookie sheet. In a bowl toss chicken with sauce to coat thoroughly. Place a slice of cheese on each bun and then top with a generous spoonful of chicken. If desired you can pour a little extra sauce over the chicken. Then place the pan of sandwiches under a low broiler for just a few minutes to melt the cheese and carmalize the sauce. Then place top bun on them and broil to toast bun. Serve with some chips or a salad for a yummy simple summer sandwich meal.

Summer.

2011-06-27T06:53:00.000-06:00

Summer is here in the midwest and along with it came the heat and humidity. Even though this has been an unusually wet summer it hasn't changed the heat factor. And during the hot summer months I try to use my recipes that keep the house cool and don't use the oven or stove as much. So, this week I will be posting recipes for my favorite summer meals. And on Friday I hope you will join me and leave your recipe ideas on your blog with a link back here or in the comments section.

So, here is my recipe today...

Grilled Chicken Pasta Salad

2 grilled (or baked just cooked and cubed) chicken breasts

Any assortment of veggies that you like or have on hand (some of my favorites are cucumber, red onion, broccoli, cauliflower, and carrots)

One box (16oz) of pasta cooked according to the directions

Bottle of Ranch dressing

Combine chicken and pasta in large bowl. Toss in veggies to suite your taste and at times I have even added bacon crumbles here too. Then top with dressing to cover and chill the salad for a bit. Add more dressing just before serving.

This salad is amazing and even my children eat it!! It is a staple in our fridge in the summer. Check back tomorrow for another summer time recipe and don't forget to get your post ready for the link up Friday!

Scattered.

2011-06-21T13:47:00.000-06:00

Ever feel like you have so many goals and desires that you are scattered around so thin nothing gets done well? That is my season right now.

I have a heart that is seeking direction from God in what to cut and what to put in. I am searching for His peace and direction in my life and my ministry in my home. I know something must change but what I am not sure.

But the one thing I know right now, is I want to put my focus on my Savior and leave it there. I want to make mayself a goal for several areas of my life to use as a sounding board when choices must be made. I want some goals so that I have clear focus and direction in my life.

But I want God to write those goals. Would you pray for me as I seek and pray and allow God to heal me, lead me, and use me?

Love Continues

2011-06-16T06:55:00.000-06:00

So in this next post (it's been awhile I know) on love I'm feeling lead to write about tough love. It wasn't where I was planning to go but here I am.

As mother's many times we are called to "tough" love. It hurts. It is no fun for anyone. Tough love isn't fun to give or to receive. But it is often needed.

We are called to raise Godly children. To help them learn obedience to us so that they learn to be obedient to Christ. Their flesh, our flesh too for that matter, often gets in the way of obedience. But love must push us to be our best. And our best can only be accomplished through obedience to Christ. And when tough love is required, it is mandated in scripture.

Proverbs 13:24 He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

But tough love isn't only for us to give. Sometimes tough love must be given at church, the work place, or with our friends and family. In many situations, we may be tempted to "baby", "hold the hand", or otherwise, "spoil" people. We think that to show the "love of Christ" we must fill needs. And while filling needs is often part of the calling, sometimes filling needs can actually hurt others.

The same action always creates the same reaction. So, if the first hand out didn't solve the money trouble, the second and third one probably won't either. If the first time you ignored the gossipping wasn't the last time that it happened, ignoring it again probably won't make it go away either. And well, you get my point.
Tough love is a love that make the giver uncomfortable too. We hate to be deemed "judgemental" or "harsh, unloving, and unkind". But even Christ gave us this example when he spoke to the rich young ruler.

Mark 10:21 Looking at him, Jesus felt a love for him and said to him, "One thing you lack: go and sell all you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me."

When the young man didn't like what Jesus said He didn't run over to him and try to bargain with Him. He didn't water down the truth to make the man feel better. He stood by the truth. No matter how people percieve it, no matter how akward it makes us feel, at times the TRUTH requires that we show tough love.

Somethings should not be compromised, and at times, when people are not following scripture, or they are not being responsible and obedient citizens, we can't just turn a blind eye. We must look on them in love. And love them enough to stand firm, and push them to be all that Christ desires them to be. Same as with our children, standing firm and carrying out punishment is not easy or fun but if we truly desire our children to be followers of Christ with all their heart we must love them enough to hold them to high standards.

Let's help creat arrows for the kingdom that are focused on the "mark" of Christ. That when we shoot them out on their own they will fly toward the target. Not being pulled or pushed by anything or anyone.

Lions and tigers and family too!

2011-06-14T13:55:00.000-06:00

This past zoo trip (the end of May) was not only a great family day but also a GREAT opportunity for me to "play" with my new camera. I got some great shots and had a blast doing it. I am loving this thing. I am so glad that I waited and saved and saved and waited to get the one I wanted. I looked and watched for sales until just the right package came along. And it was well worth the wait. So here are a few of the best of the best from our zoo trip.

And now, the next thing I can't wait to "play" with is a newborn photoshoot. I have four friends all due before Thanksgiving and I am so excited (not to mention having "newborn envy"). Now if those precious ones would just hurry up and get here so we can "play" I could use all of these ideas in my head before I forget them!!

Have you Heard?

2011-06-13T09:01:00.000-06:00

I love this song .

I have been listening to it for a couple of years now. But just recently, when feeling a little "down" about Jeremiah's birth and following NICU stay I heard a line for the first time so to speak. Yes, being "down" feeling cheated, and otherwise throwing myself a pity party for being a "NICU momma" is a tool that The Enemy uses often to pull my focus off my Savior and His calling for my life and put it on myself. When I start to feel the pull of life getting to me. Thinking life isn't fair. It isn't fair I have "missed" two of my babies first weeks while they struggled for life in the hospital. It isn't fair that I have had sick children for the past two weeks now. It isn't fair that I have missed church three times now due to illness. But like we've all heard before, "Life isn't fair!".

So, there is a line in this song. It says, "From life's first cry to final breath, Jesus commands my destiny."

I. Love. This. Line.

I has become something I say to myself over and over again. I didn't "miss" anything with my boys. I didn't "miss" church. Every breath, every day, every going, and every coming. He is in control. So whenever I get discouraged about life not going my way, I just sing to myself.

"From life's first cry, to final breath, Jesus commands my destiny."

This is where I am supposed to be today. If this is where Christ wants me, this is where I want to be. I want to find joy and peace and love to shower on others that are also here with me. Because this is where He wants me today.

Just some sentences.

2011-06-10T19:25:00.000-06:00

Its been a long week.

Most of my children have been sick at least some portion of this week.

Katherine has croup and strep throat. Both. Ouch.

With every cough she would cry. With every cough she would wake up. That resulted in waking up momma every 30min-an hour this week.

She's on antibiotics, breathing treatments and a steroid. I hope it helps. And soon.

I learned this week (thanks to my doctor) that the virus that causes croup in young children cause laryngitis in older children/adults. Good to know!

I have fallen off the band wagon of eating well and working out. I have lost almost 15 pounds so far but have a ways to go.

So, I sit here with my veggies and Crystal Light thinking about a way to fit a better workout into my day.

It won't be long and my garden will force me to find time. Tending to it in 100 degree heat is a great workout!

This weekend is really low key for us. Josiah has a birthday (5th) and other than that we are staying home and resting.

And to try to make this post a little more exciting here are a few more photos I shot the other day...

Well, I can't get the photos to upload so, here is the boring, no pictures version of this post.

7 months.

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Jeremiah.

Sweet and smiley.

Content and calm.

Chubby and chuncky.

Lover of breastmilk and momma.

And not of solid food.

Sitting and starting to babble.

Jeremiah this month you ...

weigh about 21 pounds
Sleep through the night most of the time
Still won't eat baby food without gagging
Are sitting very well and are even leaning and reaching while sitting up.
Have been heard babbling "da da" and "na na"
Are seven months!!

I love you baby boy!

Where Have You Been?

2011-06-06T07:08:00.000-06:00

So, you have been wondering where I have been?

Oh you weren't?

Oh well. I have been missing my blogging friends lately. Not only because of my lack of posting but also because of "Blogger's" trouble with blocking comments. But anyway, I have been missing you all.

But the biggest reason for my abscence is that it is now officially gardening season!! I am so excited to be back in the soil. After a hard year last year, what with being majorly pregnant and swollen and it being super hot and my soil being in bad need of some attention I was ready to make this year epic!

But it turned from cool and rainy to almost 100 every day overnight. So I have been up and in the garden first thing in the morning. Which is my usual blogging time. And I just can't seem to fit it in any other time of day.

I was hoping to get "ahead" this weekend with some posts I have in my head but then two of the children got sick and now here it is Monday (I'm cheating and writing this before bed on Sunday night) and I am not ahead at all.

But at least my garden is looking good!!! See!

Long.

2011-05-31T07:07:00.000-06:00

It has been a long time since we have had much family time.

But this weekend we caught up a little. We went to the zoo!! Some of my family tagged along too and we had a great time. It was beautiful weather.

Our group. (Minus myself and Jeremiah who spent most of the day in the ergo)

I got to "play" with my new camera a whole lot this weekend. I even, for the first time, had an impromptu photo shoot at a public location. Maggie was my willing subject and it was lots of fun! I can't wait to hit some local parks and get some more shots really soon.

Sunday was spent in normal Sikes' fashion, morning service, lunch, naps for some, evening service, dinner, and then bed. That's pretty normal around here.

Then on Monday we did yard work while Maggie "babysat" in the house for us. She loved it and her and Samantha even surprised us by cleaning the house while we were outside. We had dinner with my in-laws and then spent some time in family worship and headed to bed. It was a full weekend but it was fun and much needed!

How was your weekend? Did you do anything fun or different? Leave me a link if you blogged about it!

Life.

2011-05-27T13:26:00.000-06:00

Life is busy.

Life is good.

Life is hard.

But all along the way God is with us.

This week has been a hard one. A tiring one and one that makes you pray to God for the energy and love to take the next step. Thank you my dear blog readers for hanging in there through the times of no posting. Know that I long to share with you. My head is so full I don't know where to start. My heart is breaking for two dear families that have suffered loss this week. Praise the Lord this world is "not our home" and "we are just a' passin' through". We have hope that Jesus commands our lives from begining to end. He loves us!

Please pray for my family dear readers. This is a difficult season for us.

But we cling to the hope that one day....

Revelation 21:4

And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

Where?

2011-05-25T09:40:00.000-06:00

My baby is already sleeping un swaddled. Where has the time gone?

He is trying out baby food. Where has the time gone?

He is sitting up all by himself. Where has the time gone?

I've always heard that time flies when you are having fun. Well, I'm living my life long dream of being a mommy and I couldn't be having any more fun!!

God is amazingly good all the time!

Psalm 107:1 Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.

At least it wasn't water!!

2011-05-24T10:06:00.000-06:00

You know those super fun punching bags that you fill with water at the bottom and when you hit it, it falls down and then bounces back up?

Well Josiah got one for Christmas and he loved it! But it shortly got a hole in the "water" compartment and so I decided to fill the bottom with some extra rice and lentils that I had.

It worked beautifully! It was heavy enough to make it "bounce" but it didn't leak out of the hole. Everyone was happy and life was good.

Until......

Someone decided to pull the plug. Literally! Then Katherine decided it was her job to spread lentils ALL over the carpet (It couldn't have been the hardwood floor that covers most of our home. That could have been easily swept!).

But as I vaccumed and vaccumed and vaccumed some more, I just kept thinking...

"At least it wasn't water!!"

Fathers

2011-05-23T13:29:00.001-06:00

Fathers.

Great influence.

The Protectors.

The teachers.

We as wives and mother's should encourage, support, and allow our husbands to be the father's that God has called them to be. Our family will be stronger, our children will be happier, and our homes more peaceful. It is God's design.

One of the simplest of homemaking tips I know is to allow your husband to be the umbrella over your family. As hardships come he will protect those he loves from the storm, but in times of peacefull weather he will stand back and allow his family to enjoy it with him. With Daddy watching over and protecting the family, we mommas can bear children, kiss skinned knees, and care for the home without bearing the weight of anything else.

It is God's design. He created men for that.

Brothers.

2011-05-18T07:14:00.001-06:00

Four years apart.

But so very very close.

A bond for a lifetime.

And love to span the years.

Chore Chart

2011-05-16T09:38:00.002-06:00

I took these pictures ages ago and meant to get this post up quickly but life happens and here we are, the middle of MAY! Can't believe I just had to type that. Time passes so quickly and I am often reminded that this fact should make us be wise stewards of our time and invest in things and people for eternity and not the fleeting things of this world. Anywho. Not the point of this post.

My new chore chart....

You know you are a homeschooling, like things practical, don't really care if my home looks like a magazine as long as it works kinda family when your chore chart is hung as the first thing you see when you walk in the door.

I laminated the cards with the chores on them. On some of the cards like "Clean the Bathroom" I broke down the job into bullets. This way the child could easily remember what all was included with "Clean the Bathroom". And each morning I choose which ones need attention that day. The cards then go in the child's pocket that will be responsible for that job that day. I made cards with jobs with each child in mind. Some jobs rotate between all of the children but others are smaller and simpler for the younger ones and others are a little more detailed for the bigger girls.

Each child has a pocket. The cards are moved to "Completed" once they are done AND CHECKED by momma.

The check mark part is used hand in hand with the small $1 a week allowance that our three older children get. For each "check mark" that the child gets they loose a quarter. Check marks can be given for anything from disrespectful attitude to complaining about chores.

We have been using this system for about 3 months now and it is the first time we have stuck with a chore chart system. It is all about finding what works for your family. I love being able to choose what chores get done each day. I don't need the living room dusted each and every day of the week, but once or twice a week it lands in someone's pocket and vila the living is staying dusted. It is working like a charm!

I love watching my children learn to save for things they want and they are quickly learning how to use their money wisely along with tithing, and saving.

But above all, I am so glad to have found something that is working and that we are sticking with. What chore system do you use? Do your children get allowance? Please share! I love to glean ideas from other families.

Freezer Cooking.

2011-05-14T08:30:00.000-06:00

The weather cooled off here after a bit of "summer" heat in the spring so I decided to use the cooler waether to stock the freezer a bit. I'm trying to get ahead so I don't have to bake as much in the heat of summer. Canning during the summer heat is enough extra expense, it helps if I don't have to run the oven non-stop too. So today I did 2 loaves cinnamon bread, 2 loaves zucchini bread, 3 loaves and 6 muffins of banana bread, a double batch of puppy chow, and a batch of beef broth (not pictured it's already in the freezer).

Cinnamon Bread

I mix this dough in my bread machine on the dough cycle.

2 eggs with enough warm water to make 1 1/3 cups
1/4 cup applesauce
1/4 cup honey
4 cups flour and 2 tsp yeast

When the dough cycle is complete I roll out the dough and spread with butter and cinnamon sugar and let it rise one more time. Then I bake at 350 until golden brown.

Zucchini Bread

3 eggs
1 3/4 cup sugar
1 cup applesauce
2 tsp vaninlla
2 cups flour
2 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp baking powder
2 tsp cinnamon
2 cups shredded zucchini
Combine all ingredients and add nuts, chocolate chips, raisins or whatever you like and pour into two greased loaf pans. Bake at 350 for 50-55 min.

Banana Bread

1 1/4 cup sugar
1/2 cup butter (applesauce)
2 eggs
3-4 bananas
3/4 cups evaperated milk
1 tsp vanilla
3 cups flour
1 tsp baking soda
2 Tbsp brown sugar
Combine all and again you can add in nuts, chocolate chips or raisins or whatever you want to throw in for variety. Then bake at 350 for about 30 min or until brown.

Heavy.

2011-05-12T09:35:00.000-06:00

Today my heart is heavy and my mind is consumed with mothers.

I have heard of several new mother's that are dealing with sick newborns.

Nothing prepares you for that. We as a society don't like to think about it, talk about it, or to even try to realize that we are not all blessed with healthy babies each and every time we deliver a precious new life.

We sometimes forget that a healthy, uncomplicated delivery is a BLESSING!!! It is not the only outcome.

I heard it best put like this....

Imagine yourself preparing for a trip. Say tooooooo, France.

You study the weather, the customs, the language, and the food. You want to be able to totally enjoy your trip and to be as prepared and as equiped as you can be. You spend countless hours studying, investing your time, thoughts, and emotions into the upcoming trip. For months you prepare and finally the day is here.

You board your plane, and sit back and take a breath. Here it comes. The moment you have been waiting so long for. And then without notice and totally without explination the pilot announces that you are landing in Italy!!!
WHAT!!! You didn't prepare for this. It isn't what you expected. How can you handle this? It is just too hard. Too confusing and too scary!!

Now think of that mother and father. They have spent months planning, preparing for, investing in, equiping themsleves for, and loving that baby growing inside her. They envision the day they will bring baby home. How they will snuggle on the couch, lay in the bed and nurse, and watch the baby sleep in the crib they have so lovingly picked out and assembled just for baby.

Then the day comes. Labor starts and they take a deep breath and prepare to meet their long awaited blessing. Then the unthinkable happens. Instead of those first special moments of snuggle and nursing those moments are replaced with air bags, wires, monitors, and beeps. There is no quiet snuggle or first "family picture". There is a NICU nurse and a neonatalogist saying words you can barely comprehend while your head spins. This isn't what you prepared for. This wasn't supposed to happen. You prepared, you ate well, you got prenatal care. Why? And the roller coaster is off. Each journey is different from this point. Some long. Some short. Some rocky. Some a slow and steady climb to health. And before you know it, you are well versed in blood gas levels, oxygen monitors, heart rates of newborns, and the daily rounding of doctors.

It isn't right. It isn't fun. And it isn't what we prepare for when a new baby is due, but this is the road that some of us mother's have been choosen to walk. I humbly ask that you pray for the mother's that are walking this road right now. For I was one of those mothers. But I had my Heavenly Father, my church family, and my family to get me through. Many of these parents don't have that support. They walk this road alone. And they are hurting. They are scared and they need someone to reach out to them. Would you pray for them? Consider giving to our efforts to support the Ronald McDonald Family Room (See previous post)? Whatever you are lead to do, just don't forget to hug your healthy children. And consider them a blessing.

Help us please.

2011-05-11T07:28:00.000-06:00

I am sure we have all heard about the Ronald McDonald organizations.

Well, my family and I have used the Family Room at St. John's Mercy Medical Center in St. Louis twice now. And now that my girls are older they are wanting to give back to an organization that has given them so much in such a hard time.

You see, the Family Room has free snacks, drinks, games to play, a television to watch, couches to sit and snuggle on, and a bathroom with showers and laundry facilities. It was our "living room" while I was rooming in with Jeremiah. It was the place that they could play, sit on a lap, and try to be a "normal" family during a time of extreme stress. It meant a lot to them. So they came up with a plan.

The Family Room is very low on snacks and drinks for the families. When we received a letter telling us this news my girls were burdened to action. They are baking and selling cookies for donations to buy items for the room. But, for those of you that don't want cookies or don't live close enough to get them here is another way you can help Maggie and Samantha on their journey.

It's Avon.

Their aunt is a representitve and has offered to do a fundraiser with them. 20% of your order total will go toward their fund and the person placing the largest order will receive an extra special gift as well. You will receive 10% off your order if it is the largest placed during this fundraiser. So here is how you order.....

Where: go here to see how much they have raised and to place an order.

How:

1 Go to the above address.

2 Place your order with Avon
3 Enter the promotion code "RONALD"
4 Your Avon order will be directly delivered to your door via UPS!
5 20% of the proceeds will help this cause!!!

Thanks so much for all you can do to help us. If you want cookies (I can ship them too) just leave me a comment with an email address and I will get in touch with you. And, if you don't feel lead to help in any other way would you please pray for my girls' hearts. They are so tender to the needs of other's and I pray that they will stay that way in a world where "self" is taught to be number 1.

Mother's Day 2011

2011-05-09T14:43:00.001-06:00

So, I got my new camera. On this Mother's Day weekend 2011.

And I am LOVING it.

We had an amzing, busy, family filled weekend.

I couldn't have asked for a better Mother's Day.

I am truly blessed.

Our family ties are strong and that is not something I take for granted.

It is in the small ordinary, everyday moments that I am over and over again

humbled by the blessings that God has put into my care for me to train and to teach.

And in every dirty face, spilled cup, and

toothless smile, I see a future. And it is one that I pray is a world changing, Christ loving future for each of my children.

6.

2011-05-06T08:03:00.000-06:00

Hard to believe this babe is six months old already!!

From this.....

to this......

In six months!

He has stolen our hearts and has his every whim met.

His siblings adore him and I truly believe he will NEVER know how to play by himself!!

You see this babe is never alone. He is doted on as much today as the day he came home so many months ago.

Jeremiah at this stage you are -

Sleeping through most night but occasionaly waking once to nurse.
Taking naps like a champ.
Sitting unassisted as shown in the above photos. (just started that this month)
You have tasted cereal and didn't care much for it.
Eating only momma's milk most days.
Smiling, cooing and laughing at anyone.
You are the most social baby I have ever had (or seen for that matter).
You will give momma kisses when I ask most of the time.
My favorite thing you do right now is grab my face with a chubby hand on each cheek and giggle and talk and kiss me!!

I love you Jeremiah!! You are growing so quickly, and while I hate that with part of me I can't to see who you will become!

31 Things - May

2011-05-03T07:54:00.000-06:00

April wasn't so hot with my 31 (or 30 for April) things list. So, I'm hitting the ground running in May. It's only the 1st and I'm writing my list.

Box up items for yard sale with FAITH homeschool group
Clean windows inside and out.
Clean ceiling fans.
Till garden
Plant garden full of yummy veggie plants!
Get hooks hung in the boys room
Finish cleaning out the extra room downstairs. I did do some of this but its proven a 2 day job!
Plant flowers in the pots on the front porch.
Start gathering materials for history and science units this fall.
Help girls in their endeavor to raise money to buy supplies for the Ronald McDonald Family room at St. John's Mercy hospital. (I have a really cool way for YOU all to help coming soon!)
Freezer cook for this summer.
Yard sale at least one weekend. (This is something I love and never take time to do anymore.)
Revamp plans for the outreach this summer. Some plans fell through.
Loose another 4 pounds. I met this goal for April!!!
Clean out under the beds.
Get rid of at least three bag of toys. You know to make room for the thirty we will get during the birthdays coming up!
Finish my study of Revelations.
Clean out owner's manual file. Pretty sure we don't need the owner's manual to the mower that broke 3 summer's ago.
Finalize vacation plans and start setting aside money. We changed plans and are going to Georgia and staying with family! Free lodging is much cheaper!
Plan a field trip for FAITH homeschool group.
Host a park playdate for the Mom's of Littles support group (also part of FAITH).
Clean out basement closet.
Clean up yard and play toys. Throw away broken set up a nice seating area for Jeremiah and I. I love spring!
Memorize the 10 Commandments. This is the next set of scriptures our children are learning.
Research and buy my new slr camera. Any recommendations? I've been saving for months and finally have enough!
Cut the girls' hair for summer. It will be more like a trim.
Get my hair thinned and trimmed.
Get a new header on this blog. It needs updated so badly!!
Shop for and throw a birthday celebration for Samantha.
Take my kids to the park at least twice.
Run more. At least three days a week. The rain put a HUGE damper on this in April. I'm hoping May will be better.

So, there you have it. Hopefully this month will be better. I'm starting earlier and clinging to the hope the weather has GOT to be drier this month too!

Have you made a list? I'd love to see it. Leave me a link so I can check it out.

Join Me.

2011-05-02T11:10:00.000-06:00

Join me over at Happily Domestic for my Rainy Day Activities post. It's great timing as the weather again this week is rainy and cool here in the midwest at least!!

Oh, and the "Bag Bread" post is here.

I'm Guest posting

2011-04-28T15:13:00.000-06:00

Over at Happily Domestic they are gearing up for the Summer Survival Guide 2011. There will be great posts and giveaways! So, hop on over during May and check out the great ideas.

Loving Your Church

2011-04-28T06:49:00.000-06:00

Today, as I write this "the church" is referencing the church as a whole. In some places "the church" might be refering to the members as individuals, but not today. Please keep that in mind as you read this post. Today, loving your church is loving them as a whole. Each member and each leader put together as a whole. Showing the world your priorities as you love your church. Loving them so you can shine for Him in this world.

The biggest and best way to love your church is with your time. Making attendance a priority, not only on Sunday morning, but whenever the doors are open. If the church is going to function well, and as a body as Christ has created it, every member must be present. Christ has put each and every church together. He has called the people there with gifts that will compliment each other and work to strengthen other members but also to be an effective light in the community. Without all its parts no body functions as effectively and the church can't function as well if some parts are rarely seen.
1 Corinthians 12:25-27 ...so that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it. Now you are Christ's body, and individually members of it.

We can also love our church family by training our family. While I believe 100% that the father should be the spiritual leader of the home the mother's are with the children (in most cases) more than the fathers. If we are not continually reminding our children what dad is teaching during family devotions, if we are not supportive of him and following through with the rules and guidelines he lays down, we are undermining his God-given authority. If dads do not train their children in the ways of the Lord the church will not be as effective. It is not the church's job to offer enough children's classes to equip children for the Christian life. That responsibilty was given to the father's

Psalm 78:5 - .....Which He commanded our fathers That they should teach them to their children

If children are not trained at home the church can't focus on outward growth and saving the lost when their own members are not raising their children to love and serve the Lord. Love your church by equiping your children for service.

Matthew 6:21 ...for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also

Love your church with your offerings.

Bag Bread.

2011-04-26T12:31:00.000-06:00

We dumped and poured and squeezed and squished.

We counted and measured and read the directions.

We made some messes.

We loved this project. (The article is published in my all time favorite magazine, Keepers At Home)

We kneaded and punched and dusted with flour.

We rolled and cut and rolled some more.

We waited and waited for the rise.

We made some more messes and wore flour and smiles.

Even the littlest hands joined in.

This was a super fun activity and full of all kinds of educational experiences for the kids. Here are the directions as printed in the Keepers At Home magazine Spring 2003 issue (Yes, I love it that much that I read and reread and reread some more!!)

Bag Bread

In a one gallon zip top bag place -

1 cup whole wheat flour

1 Tbsp yeast

1 tsp salt

Seal the bag and gently shake to combine. Open the bag and add -

2 Tbsp oil

2 Tbsp honey

1 cup warm water

Squeeze out as much air as possible and after sealing bag again, squeeze and squish until the dough is smooth. (My children needed a little help here). Then open the bag and add -

1 cup white flou

1/2 cup wheat flour

Knead 10 minutes longer. (By the end of this project I had decided that it was just easier and we dumped it onto the table at this point and did our final kneading.)

Let dough (Still in bag if you prefer) rise until doubled.

Grease bread pan.

When dough has risen punch down and remove from bag (or whatever you had it rise in) and place in bread pan (we cut ours into dinner rolls).

Let rise again and then bake at 350 degrees.

ENJOY!!!!

Meaningful Monday

2011-04-25T09:01:00.000-06:00

Meaningful Monday.

10 things that I am thankful for to help me start the week off right.

A great family weekend.
Watching my dad play with my children. Generational love is amazing!!
A Svaior that rose for me. He loves me as me. No matter how I feel about myself, my weight, my hair, or my outlook. He love me for me.
Tiny green sprouts in my new raised beds. The hope of a great crop and a new season.
The safety of all that were the path of the storms that have devestated my area this weekend. Lots of damage but no lives lost. What a merciful God we serve.
My Bible. Might sound a little flipant but this week I have been studying and praying about a specific burden on my heart and it never fails to amaze me how the scriptures come alive and speak to us. My Heavenly Father speaks to me, gives me understanding and peace to wait on Him.
Laughter. Especially from my children. I never tire of hearing their laughter. It makes me smile everyday.
The rainy days. While I am getting tired of the rain and sloppy mud, it has made for lots of arts and crafts and bean playing and fort making. It's great memory making weather.
My dishwasher. I can't imagine, as I start a second load of dishes in less than 24 hrs, not having this amaizng appliance. I would be up to my eye balls in dishes today!!
Cloth diapers. I love using them. They are cute, safe, clean, and "green".

What are you thankful for today? Or, do you have a prayer request that I can pray for with you? I would love to lift that up for you. To help bear one another's burdens in prayer. Leave it in the comments or shoot me an email at asikes @ yhti. net (just take out the spaces)

If anyone knows how to make those cool button things for my blog I would love some help. I would like one that people can grab for "Meaningful Mondays"

Couponing Questions?

2011-04-20T07:33:00.000-06:00

So to answer a few questions I have had regarding my couponing this week I wanted to share a couple of my favorite websites with you.

The first is Common Sense with Money. She offers lots of internet freebie deals and has detailed posts from about any store you could think of with their weekly sales and where to find coupons to match.

But my new favorite is Money Saving Mom. I love her site for many reasons but the newest and biggest reason she has become my favorite is that on her site under her "Store Deals" drop down menu you will find a "Regional Store" option. Once on that page you can choose from the alphabetical list of literally thousands of stores. Just click a link and it takes you to the blog of someone that has paired up the sale items of the week with great coupons for you!! It saves a ton of leg work!!! And except for the little mom and pop stores around me I haven't found one NOT on the list. I love this feature.

As I go along on this coupon journey I am finding for me the biggest savings is on soaps, cleaners, and personal hygiene products. I don't buy a lot of packaged foods or name brand items so many coupons are not what I need. I have found HUGE savings on cereal. We now use cereal for snacks and meals and any other time we need some quick fill me ups.

The newest thing that I have learned is that you need to buy the paper to make couponing work to its fullest. When you start buying a paper that comes with all the coupon inserts is when I finally started to see the BIG savings. I buy the Post most weekends but I also use THIS site to help me know what will be in the paper so that I know if it is worth if for me that weekend or not.

Between buying the paper and following these sites (which gives you a heads up when certain companies have high value coupons on their websites) I have started saving a lot each week and it is really a fun and frugal endeavor!!

Do you use coupons? Any great sites or ideas you have found to help you save money on the items that we all use?

Meaningful Mondays

2011-04-18T06:51:00.001-06:00

My children (and all the children from church) did awesome with their Easter program last night.
Another night of heart to heart talks with my husband.
A new begining each and every day.
A new focus, a new plan, and a unified spirit for my husband and I.
Little green plants popping their heads up in my raised beds!! It's spring!!
Church family and friends that love on you when needed.
The way that God supplies each and every need in sometimes the most unexpected ways! He is so good.
A sunshiny Monday morning to clean, do laundry, and praise my Heavenly Father.
Several plans this week to fellowship with other believers. It is always such a sweet time!
Security in knowing that even when I fail, there is forgiveness waiting for me. From Jesus, from my husband, from my kids. I do my best, learn from my mistakes, and ask forgiveness when needed. I am loved, I am cared about,

I was DIED FOR!!!!

What you are thankful for this Easter week? You are special to Christ. He has given each and every person the choice to have this security too. Do you know Him?

Mary or Martha?

2011-04-15T13:51:00.000-06:00

Or some of both?

Have a "Martha" house, the "Mary" way.

Enter to win this HUGE giveaway over at Raising Homemakers.

Giveaway ends Friday the 15th.

Needed.

2011-04-15T08:09:00.000-06:00

On this gray and cloudy day here in the midwest I thought some pictures of spring were in order. I snapped these beauties the other day and was so happy with how they turned out!!!